Consultancy

I have observed levels of stress in bereaved families across the years that have been shocking and troubling.  This should be a time when the focus is on your specific needs at what can be an extremely difficult time. You should be able to be with the people that matter to you as well as those who can comfort you.  However, the volume of both admin and decision-making at a time of bereavement, particularly for the next of kin, can sometimes be simply overwhelming.

 

In addition to working as a celebrant, I can offer to take some of this extra burden away from you. From the very initial question of “which funeral director do I choose?” to “what should we do with the ashes?” From deciding whether or not to have a full funeral ceremony or a more simple family ceremony with, perhaps a memorial planned for a later date. And let’s not forget all the minutiae of difficult issues that have to be dealt with in the interim. I am happy to help.  Please feel free to call me or email me if you think that this could be for you.

I can offer in-person help with options around, for instance:

  • Finding alternative venues
  • Memorial options 
  • Service extras, ways to personalise, multiple languages, video and streaming options. 
  • Live musicians and other bespoke music ideas 
  • Planning your own funeral, perhaps
  • Families being spread out across the country/world (video conferencing meetings)
If you live by yourself with no support nearby, I can also help with the tasks which are such a burden at this time.  For instance, logistics around registering the death, direct cremation paperwork, cancelling direct debits/bank accounts. I would also be happy to recommend bereavement counsellors and lawyers both of whom are often needed at this terrible time.

I work primarily within London and the home counties, but have valued relationships throughout the country and am happy to offer advice wherever you need me.

Fee is dependent on exactly what you want or need from me.  All situations are unique. I will get back to you immediately once I have seen what you need and give you an idea on this so that you can make a decision quickly.