Planning your wedding or civil partnership

As soon as you are ready to start thinking about your wedding ceremony, I suggest that we meet up for a coffee or glass of wine with absolutely no obligation – so that you can see if I am the right person to conduct the ceremony for you. I can talk to you about different possibilities and share my advice and experience. If you think I am the right person, then I will draw up a ceremony plan for you free of charge. If you would like to go ahead, I ask for a deposit to secure your wedding date in my calendar. We will then arrange to meet again for a longer, more detailed planning session, after which I will write a complete, detailed script for you to review and edit until you are completely happy with everything.

My service includes:

  • A personalised wedding ceremony based on your wishes
  • Support and ideas to write your own vows or other special elements if you choose
  • Suggestions for poems, music and symbolic gestures
  • Contact with friends and family members for background information as necessary
  • Rehearsal at the venue or alternative location
  • My undivided attention on the day to ensure your ceremony is perfect
  • A certificate of your wedding ceremony, if you should choose, for you to sign on the day and keep
  • Presentation version of your wedding ceremony script for you to keep
  • All travel for meetings, rehearsals and on the day within 30 mile radius of WA14 (any distance outside of this radius will incur additional mileage costs)
  • Professional indemnity and public liability insurance
  • Alternative Humanist wedding celebrant in the unlikely event that I am unable to perform your ceremony

A typical wedding ceremony lasts about 25-30 minutes and can include any or all of the following:

  • Wedding party enters ceremony area to music of your choice
  • Introductory words about marriage
  • Readings or poems selected by you or a friend or relative
  • Your love story, which I will create with you
  • A symbolic action or actions, which can include hand-fasting, candle lighting, sand blending etc
  • Exchange of vows, which I can write with you
  • Exchange of rings
  • Declaration of your marriage, and call for guests to support you
  • Poem or song selected by you or a friend or relative
  • Signing of your wedding certificate, accompanied by music of your choice
  • Closing words
  • Wedding party leaves ceremony area to music of your choice followed by guests