Humanist funerals are unique, personal and real. In a humanist ceremony people, not religion, are at the heart of the occasion. Individually crafted from start to finish, the ceremony is welcoming and inclusive of all who attend. Whilst non-religious, it recognises the diversity of religious and cultural beliefs of the people attending and the common values they may hold such as compassion and respect for others.

Whilst most funerals are held in crematoria, cemeteries, and natural burial grounds, a funeral can be held anywhere (permission may be required); funerals have been held in pubs, fields, gardens, care homes, and on the beach.

I’ll work with you to create the right ceremony; uplifting and celebratory, dignified and sombre, or a combination of both.

Whilst each funeral ceremony is unique, if it is held in a crematorium or cemetery there will be time limits which affect what is possible and myself or your funeral director can advise you on this.

A typical humanist funeral ceremony looks like this, and we’ll discuss it at our meeting:

• Entrance and introductory music
• Welcome words
• Thoughts on life and death
• Tribute from celebrant (based on meeting family/friends)
• Tributes from family and friends (if wanted)
• Readings of poetry and prose by celebrant or family/friends (if wanted)
• Reflection – a few moments for private thoughts or silent prayer (either in silence or with music/screenshow)
• Committal – formal farewell when curtains can be closed or coffin lowered
• Closing words – including thanks on your behalf and any arrangements after the ceremony
• Leaving and final music