Jumping into Married Life image courtesy of Lisa Carpenter Photography.

Example Ceremony Structure: 

Here is an example of how a wedding ceremony might be structured. 

• The arrival of the couple (individually or together)
• Introductions and welcomes
• Words about love and commitment
• Reading or poem
• The couple’s story
• What marriage means
• Reading, poem or a song
• The couple’s promises/vows
• Meaningful symbolic act (e.g. handfasting)
• Exchange of rings
• Pronouncement as married
• Words of well-wishing
• Closing and departure

Even if none of the above works for you, together we can tailor a ceremony just the way you both want it to be.

Why choose a Humanist Ceremony? Click Here to read a blog by one of my amazing couples.  

Ceremony Rituals: 

Ceremony rituals not only create a great visual memory but can provide a beautiful keepsake from the day and allow your friends and family to be involved, here are a few ideas.

The Flower Ritual.

The couple swaps their flowers as the first gift to each other before placing them into a vase. Friends and family can also add their flowers to create a beautiful arrangement.

Planting.

The planting of a tree can symbolise growth and future aspirations.

Sand Blending.

Blending of different coloured sands in a clear vase or bottle symbolises blending of the couple, their family and friends. It can also create a lovely keepsake.

The Wine Ceremony.

The mixing of two wines into one symbolises the merger of the couple. Mix it up a little perhaps by using gin and tonic or your favourite tipple.

Bubbles.

A pretty alternative if confetti isn’t permitted at the venue.

Handfasting.

The couple hold hands and ribbons, or twines are wound around by the celebrant, or by family and friends. The ribbons or twines are then cinched together to “tie the knot.” Many decorative formats can be used here, the more intricate knotting techniques usually require a rehearsal.

Jumping the Broom.

This tradition seems to have originated in Africa and has several layers of meaning. It can be representative of a clean sweep, a leap of faith or jumping your first married hurdle together.

Unity Candles.

This is a very romantic ritual that has so many creative opportunities. You can include your family or friends as well and the lit candles will look beautiful.

The Ring Exchange.

Exchanging wedding rings symbolises lifelong commitment and love and is possibly one of the most popular ceremony rituals.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fabulous Handfasting photo from M. Poulton. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Beautiful photo by Sarah Williams.              

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gorgeous Capture by Joe Watkins Photography.