Testimonials

Thank you so much for all you hard work and diligence. As I said before I really did feel held and supported running up to yesterday which was such a comfort. I wish you could have heard all the compliments that people were saying afterwards, about your delivery and the shape of the service. M said that she was dreading it, having never been to an English funeral she thought it was going to be very “dark”, but she after she felt lighter and that she had had a really good opportunity to say goodbye. Many said the service was a perfect balance of levity and sobriety and how much they enjoyed the eulogy. It really felt very inclusive which set the wake off to a good start!
Mrs J R Dec 23

Just wanted to thank you so much for the beautiful service that you and the others arranged for Michael. We watched it on our large tv, and it was almost like we were in the room with you all.
It was absolutely perfect and just what he would have wanted.
Mrs CK Dec 23

The service was really beautiful and just how we imagined it to be. Thank you so much for personalising it for us with your lovely spitfire brooch and the poem about flowers. Just perfect! Thank you for such a lovely service and a fitting send off for our lovely Nan.
J&A Nov 23

Thank you for reading my presentation at R’s funeral. You did a fantastic job, and I have had feedback from others who were there. The internet link worked perfectly, and we used Crome cast to project it onto our television (8.30 pm our time). The definition of his photographs was stunning when seen on the big screen in high resolution. We felt we were there with you all and saw faces we had not seen in years. Thank you so much,
Dennis and Pam, writing from 12000 miles down-under in 32-degree heat Nov 23

Thank you for everything you have done for me over the last couple of months I really do appreciate the values, sensitivity, and all-round professionalism that you brought to the task.
Mr C Sept 23

Thank you for making B’s farewell perfect. With your wise guidance the service and tribute were more than I hoped for.. with gratitude and good wishes
Mrs F Aug 23

Please accept my heartfelt and enduring appreciation of your excellent professional service. From the time you called at my home, to the closing part of the funeral. I have received so many compliments on the service with particular emphasis on your input and calming influence.
Mrs D Aug 23

A heartfelt thank you for guiding us through such a difficult time and helping us to capture M’s personality during the service Friends and Family who were there all agreed we did him proud.
Mr and Mrs E

Thank you so much for the enriching experience, despite the obvious sadness during my lovely T’s service.
Thank you for the preparation and the calming way you read the service. I can look back on the day knowing we did our best for him.
Mrs S July 23

I’m writing on behalf of myself and all the family when I say thank you for your contribution to John’s service on Friday. Your help prior to the service meant we were all as comfortable and prepared as we could be.
Your calm presence during the service helped everything run smoothly. Several people commented on how well you constructed and presented the tributes to John.
I could feel that love and respect too. I feel it was a fitting tribute to a very special man. Thank you for sending a copy of what was said, I will print it out and treasure it’s content,
Thank you for all your support.
H. March 23

We honestly can’t thank you enough for the service. Everything went perfectly and we couldn’t have wished for a better send off for him. Thank you again for reading my poem, you read it beautifully.
It was lovely to meet you and we will remember you fondly when we think of this day.
I really appreciate all you have done. The service was perfect, grandad would have been proud.
S&V Mar 23

We too wanted to thank you for the way you conducted the service along with all your hard work and support throughout the weeks prior to the ceremony. Many people commented about how well they thought the service was led and how much they ‘enjoyed’ listening to the eulogy prepared and read so well by yourself. Despite the emotional challenges of the ‘event’ we felt it couldn’t have gone better and that it was a fitting tribute to him.
Thank you for the copy of the service, I shall make sure we send it on to family and friends who have requested it or who couldn’t be there on the day.
Thank you again for all your support, we really appreciated it and it helped make the whole process as straightforward as possible.
Mrs D Feb 23

I’m writing on behalf of myself and all the family when I say thank you for your contribution to J’s service on Friday. Your help prior to the service meant we were all as comfortable and prepared as we could be.
Your calm presence during the service helped everything run smoothly. Several people commented on how well you constructed and presented the tributes to J.
Thank you for sending a copy of what was said, I will print it out and treasure it’s content,
Thank you for all your support

Mrs F Feb 23

Just a note to say thank you for the lovely service of remembrance. Your words reflected the beautiful person she was and for that we pass on our sincere thanks. D& L Feb 23

A heartfelt thank you for guiding us through such a difficult time and helping us to capture his personality during the service. Friends and family who were there all agreed that we did him proud. Thank you . H,N and B Dec 22
Just wanted to thank you again for everything you did for mum’s service. You dealt with the two minor hiccups in such a kind, calm manor and helped to smooth everything over. We really couldn’t have wished for a better service and a lot of that was down to you so many thanks indeed.
Mrs K Oct 22

We just wanted to thank you so very much for the lovely service that was held for D. We had lots of comments saying how nice it was.
Mrs B Nov 22

Thank you just doesn’t seem enough for the beautiful service you did for Mum yesterday. It was truly beautiful and fitting and the tone you set was just perfect – a mixture of love, laughter, reflection and tears.
I think she would be so pleased of how her farewell went and how much love shone through it all.
Mrs D Sept 22

Thank you so much Janet that was everything we hoped for and more. You captured the essence of mum perfectly – The L Family – Aug 22

Janet, you exceeded my expectations, what a wonderful job you did of telling her life story
Many people commented to me that this was the best funeral by far that they had been too
. Mr H Aug 22

I wanted to say a personal and big thank you to you for all the help you gave us in preparing us and the service for my husband last Friday. So many people came up to myself and to my daughters immediately after the service and afterwards at the reception to express their thanks for being able to attend such a lovely service. My sister-in- thought it was the best funeral service she had ever attended. I cannot thank you enough for all your support in the previous days Mrs B. Aug 22

Thank you so much for forwarding a record of my husband’s woodland burial.
I, and the family, were overwhelmed by the entire occasion, knowing it was exactly what he would have wished. This, of course, was facilitated by your understanding of the occasion, and of him as a person – thank you. Mrs F Aug 22

Thank you so much for the way you handled R’s funeral. I and all the family thought the whole day was lovely. I had not been looking forward to the day, but you made it very relaxed. R would have been so pleased with everything as well. Many thanks. Mrs M June 22

Just a note to say a huge thank you for all you did for my Mums funeral service, you were amazing! Your guidance and support before and during the day was so appreciated we will not forget your kindness – The ‘M’ family May 22

Many thanks for your email and once again for all of your assistance. You were superb on Monday – we received many compliments about you. Mr K April 22

I would like to thank you, both personally and behalf of the family for the service on the 10th. We are all very grateful.
Your words were meaningful and relevant, enabling us to reflect on individual and collective associations with B over the years. Persons of B’s “vintage” deserve to be remembered for their values and strength of character. Your message reinforced this. We all have an obligation to keep their legacy alive. It was a privilege to meet you and I wish you all the best. Mr GM Feb 22

“Thank you for putting together such a beautiful service. You captured Mum’s personality and spirit perfectly and you made the whole process so effortless from my perspective.
Everyone felt the service was very personal and authentic and it truly felt like a celebration of her life. Dad and I are truly grateful to you. Feb 22

Wow Janet “you did us proud”
The boys and I cannot thank you enough for your enormous support during the funeral, burial and the run up to them.
It felt like an enormous burden had been lifted off my shoulders once you became involved. We have had so many compliments about the Service and the way it was conducted. So much of that was down to you. Quite a few friends are now considering a humanist Service themselves.
So once again the biggest thank you for your gentle professionalism and kindness
The S Family – Jan 22

Thank you so much for all your help making today a day I know Dad would have loved! I also wanted you to know how much I loved your final thoughts for us to consider.
Mrs A Jan 22

Everyone who attended told us afterwards how much they liked it and how suited it was to our daughter. Relatives and friends watched it via the weblink and also enjoyed it.
H family Dec 21

Thank you for your input into the service, it helped to make everything perfect. Several people told me that it was the first humanist ceremony they had been to and were now considering having one for their own funeral!

Thank you also for the way you conducted the service, your excellent and very fitting summary of my mum’s life and the way it all worked out as the perfect send off for her. It was great working with you on this and you did her proud. Dec 21

Thank you so much for the huge effort you put into making the Thanksgiving Service so successful. It was a very special occasion and one which I will obviously never forget Mrs P Aug 21

Thank you for your email with the copy of the service.
I would just like to personally thank you for your help putting a lovely service together for my mother.
On Friday I had phone calls from both my aunties, and they were so happy with the service and, trust me, they would have said if they didn’t like something. Aug 21

I have been told by so many people that the funeral was the loveliest they have ever been to – I really appreciate the role you played in it. Your wise advice helped us plan what we had never anticipated planning and were completely unprepared for. Your guidance on the music choices was masterful for which I am particularly grateful. Your calm presence on the day was so helpful and knowing the service was in your capable hands was very reassuring. It is a very special thing that you do, and I am very grateful that you do it… Mrs H June 21

Thank you so much for this, and for all that you put into yesterday too. It was such a lovely service, and the thought and care that had gone into it, from everyone, was so clear to see.

The venue couldn’t have been better, and your calm guidance was instrumental in giving Dad the day he so richly deserved. April 21

Thank you so much for making Friday so special for our family. Mum has found lockdown very hard, especially in the last few months with Dad so ill, but you made the whole process of arranging the service stress free and personal. The suggestion of having horse racing music was brilliant. I have printed off the service for mum to keep, she appreciated you sending it. April 21

Thank you for all your advice and support, both with putting last Thursday’s funeral service together and of course with running it so beautifully. Thursday was surprisingly for me, a good day, and hopefully one which will give us strength for those to come.

I have been bombarded with emails telling me what a beautiful, moving service it was and how well it had been conducted. I have also sent a number of copies of your transcript to some who couldn’t be there. For me and my family, it will be a very precious document. Feb 21

I am very aware as to how busy you must be and yet throughout you remained patient, calm and made us feel that the service and our grief was all that mattered. We are all deeply grateful. I was also immensely moved by your additional reading at the end. The whole service felt right and was exactly the kind of tribute we wanted for him. March 21

Thank you for your part in it all, a calm sane voice when everything else appears to be in a tornado … ! Jan 21

“We wanted to thank you for conducting a beautiful service for my Father. The whole thing was so perfect for him and truly felt like a celebration of his life. Delivered with real empathy and such warmth. It was very special.” S Family Dec 2020

“Thank you very much for your time yesterday. You were superb and made the day very special for the family.” MR AM Oct 20

“Thank you for being my “Rock” today at the celebration of her life everyone thought you were great, very professional & caring. Many thanks from us all” Mrs A Oct 20

“We really thought the service we ended up with was perfect and in line with what we hoped for. I am interested to read the apt words you found to read at the end at my leisure now you have sent it all through. When you are part of something like that it all goes past in a bit of a blur!! Oct 20 MR L.

“Thank you so much again for all your valuable input throughout the process of helping my husband come to terms with the difficult period since his mum died. It really helped both of us to travel from a place of anger to acceptance and then to end up with a positive service like we had today has been extremely cathartic! Mrs SC Oct 20

“A huge thank you for delivering a lovely service yesterday at my Father’s funeral. Both my Sister and I are very grateful for the way you put across all the messages and Dads “life history.” Everyone said how nice the service was and I couldn’t agree more. You certainly did him justice and I don’t think we could’ve had a nicer, more compassionate person to take the service.” J Sept 20

“Just a quick message to say thank you for leading the service on Wednesday. You encapsulated his character beautifully – it was wonderful how you managed to take everybody’s contributions and roll them into one. Your kindness and compassion in the delivery was a comfort too.” Mr A Aug 20

“You took the service with eloquence and compassion and put us at ease during such a difficult time “– Mr& Mrs IL July 2020

“Just a note to thank you for leading the tribute to Dad. You made a sad occasion bearable. Everyone said that it was a lovely send off for him, and many said it was the nicest service they had been to. Once again, thank you so much.” September 19.
“So many people said it was the loveliest service they had ever been to, it was as if you had known him personally”. March 19

“A massive thank you, Dad’s service was absolutely perfect…. thank you so much for all your hard work, so many people said it was one of the loveliest services they had been to.” March 19

“Thank you so much for making my Husband’s funeral something to treasure. I have had so many positive comments from those who attended. Many of those who knew him said you had caught his spirit. Thank you also for your help and support to me” Jan 19

“We all thought you did an excellent job at our gathering – just what I wanted and what the Funeral Director promised you would provide” Dec 18

“I really cannot thank you enough for the wonderful and ‘just right’ service you gave last week. So many of our friends said how much they appreciated it.” Nov 18

“Please accept my heartfelt and enduring appreciation of your excellent professional service, from the time you called at my home, to the closing part of the funeral. I have received so many compliments on the format, with particular emphasis on your input and calming influence throughout” August 2018.