Hello, I’m Kirsty, a Humanists UK funeral celebrant working in Swindon, across Wiltshire and the surrounding areas.  Welcome to my ceremonies page, it’s lovely to have you here.  You’ve most likely found yourself here because you’re arranging a funeral for a loved one and I’d be only too honoured to help you devise a ceremony that best reflects their personality, and the ways in which we want to continue remembering them. My role is to help you create a unique ceremony that tells a genuine life story with warmth and compassion, so that you can truthfully reflect on the deeply personal ways in which their life was lived.

There are no rules. Although non-religious in nature, humanist ceremonies are inclusive of everyone, irrespective of their background or cultural beliefs and therefore offer a great deal of flexibility when bringing people together to mourn a loss. You may wish to hold a small gathering in a place that is special to you or opt for a more traditional funeral setting. Whether you include personal readings; music and stories that make you smile; or draw upon the challenges faced throughout a lifetime, there is no right or wrong. Laughter and tears both hold a place.

Most importantly I want to ensure that you feel supported during a difficult, and often emotional, time. My aim is that the ceremony I deliver for you offers you some form of comfort and is a welcome part of the grieving process. A humanist ceremony can be held at any time that is right for you and I can either write and deliver the whole ceremony or support you in delivering personal tributes to your loved one. We will take the time to ensure that the small details aren’t overlooked, whilst also creating something that is entirely meaningful and memorable.

If a traditional funeral isn’t your preferred choice, or you aren’t quite ready to say goodbye, then I am happy to work with you to celebrate a life in alternative ways. You may consider an interment ceremony, a scattering of ashes or even a celebration of the living. Please feel free to take a look through my pages here.  When the time is right, and whatever your plans, please do get in touch and we can talk about next steps.

After losing several members of my family I retrained as a celebrant to offer others the same level of support and compassion I was afforded through these difficult periods in my life. I most recently worked as an Advisory Teacher, supporting pupils with social, emotion and mental health needs and have also recently completed a Psychology Masters, which allows me to bring knowledge and compassion to my privileged role.

I lead ceremonies and celebrations that have a humanist philosophy. Equally, I am happy to deliver ceremonies that are generally non-religious in nature.

You don’t have to be a humanist to have a humanist ceremony.

Please email me at: kirsty.allen@humanistceremonies.org.uk

Or call me on: 07591 096651