About Charmian Todd
London Wedding Celebrant – part of Humanist UK’s trusted network of accredited Wedding Celebrants
Hi, a very warm welcome to you. I’m Charmian
My name’s unusual and pronounced “shaar-mee-uhn‘‘. It’s ancient Greek in origin and means ‘joy or delight’
Humanism is important to me and describes my positively held beliefs on human rights, an inclusive and secular society and compassionate help for those in need
I love being a humanist celebrant and am delighted to be part of Humanist UK’s trusted network of accredited celebrants
In addition to weddings, I also offer vow renewals, elopement (just for two) and commitment ceremonies. I work in London and also open to doing weddings further afield or overseas
Humanist wedding ceremonies are non-religious, meaningful, memorable and unique. No two Humanist weddings are the same but all are warm and welcoming. Humanism is inclusive and we believe that having empathy and respect for others is important. All couples, first timers and blended families are welcomed
As a humanist wedding celebrant My roles is a wonderful mixture of expressive storytelling, building strong connections with my couples and using well honed organisational skills. I’ll write and deliver a joyful personalised ceremony all about you and filled with warmth and laughter
When you book me you can be sure that when you talk – I’ll listen to you with my full attention. If you need encouragement – I’ll be your cheerleader. If you’re getting a bit frazzled – I’ll offer you calm support. If you need guidance, ideas, inspiration – I’d be delighted to share suggestions with you. If you’re feeling overwhelmed – let’s lighten the mood and have a stress-busting giggle or two.
It’s your magnificent life milestone celebration, I’m deeply invested in making sure that your ceremony is everything you want it to be. From our first meeting through to your big day, it’s important to me that you’ve confidence and enjoy our journey together
Your big day, your way: Each ceremony is custom-made to reflect your values, priorities, personalities and style. Refined or rustic, formal or relaxed, conventional or free spirited, intimate or grand, traditional or reimagined – it’s entirely up to you
I’m there for you: Only one wedding a day, so yours is always my priority
Your VIPs: Big, bijoux or just for two
Your special place: You aren’t restricted to licensed venues and can choose anywhere that has significance for you. Where do you fancy having your ceremony? It could be:
in an elegant villa, chic château, fairy tale castle, plush hotel, eco-friendly wedding venue, at your local pub. Or an outdoor ceremony in a beautiful park, on a hill top, in your favourite field, in the dappled shade of a woodland, on a beautiful beach, in your bestie’s back garden
How does it work?
- Our relationship is important. We’ll have a free, no-obligation chemistry conversation to get to know each other a bit better. We’ll meet either in person or online. I’d love to hear all about you and your ideas, preferences, hopes and dreams for your ceremony
- Practicalities. When you book me, we’ll sign a contract and you’ll pay a booking fee to secure the date. We’ll schedule an in-depth planning session, discuss your choices for the music, readings, cultural/symbolic gestures, vows and much more. We’ll keep talking and shared reviews of your love story ensures that it is just right for you. I’ll write your ceremony script. You’ll get a keepsake copy to enjoy and treasure after the ceremony. You have the option of having a full rehearsal before your big day
- On your wedding day. I’ll arrive earlier and check in with planners, wedding team, bridal party and anyone else to make sure that we’re 100% good to go
Let’s talk, I’m happy to answer any questions you have
Call me: 07585877784 or Email me charmian.todd@humanistceremonies.org.uk
2024 wedding highlights
“Charmian’s sincerity, strong fluent storytelling and her light and informal tone suited us to a tee. Her way of speaking was lively and lovely to listen to. I still remember and laugh about her Cato impersonation” – DD
“She’s got great listening skill. We felt completely understood and knew we were in safe, caring hands. We had full trust in her to deliver a great ceremony for us and she did us proud” – CMcM
“Charmian has a distinctive style and natural poise. She radiates warmth, kind heartedness and has a huge friendly smile. I could tell that the beautiful, expressive storytelling came straight from the heart. ” – SC
‘We chose Charmian because she has a cool head, a warm heart and a friendly supportive style. She carefully chose the best words to convey who we are, our values and relationship. Much to our relief there were no sappy cliches nor overly sentimental tropes. We got an eloquently and sensitively written love story that’s exclusively for us and about us” – JK
“Charmian’s articulate, thoughtful and well-prepared and quickly put us at ease. Working with her felt comfortable. She listened to us and somehow connected all the threads of our relationship story and wove them into a rich gorgeous tapestry. The ceremony was well-written, well-structured and elegantly delivered. We treasure our memories and our keepsake script” – RP
“Charmian was completely invested in making our wedding the best day of our lives and going the extra mile to make sure that happened. She was engaged, enthusiastic and unflappable. We’re super happy to recommend her” AC