What Others Have Said – Funerals

Sharing and reading what others have said can help you decide if I am the right person to lead the funeral ceremony for the person you love.

 

October 2024

 

Thank you so much for conducting the service. Everyone we spoke to said it was a celebration of Rob’s life which was just as we wanted it.

 

September 2024

Thank you so much Kimberley. Everyone who attended Tom’s memorial has been telling me how much they enjoyed the service. You captured the very essence of Tom and he would have loved that. The weather held even sunny through most of it. My family have their orders to engage you for mine when the time comes. Much love and Many thanks, Julia and the Daly Family

 

Can I say a massive thank you for today. The family really appreciate what you did for us today. Thank you. 

 

I literally cannot thank you enough for your beautiful eulogy at L’s funeral yesterday. Your kindness and support was appreciated more than you know. So sorry I didn’t get to see you after the service. Everyone said how wonderful and personal it was and that it reflected L’s personality so well. As a family we are incredibly grateful to you and I am so pleased that we had the opportunity to meet you and to have you with us on such an important day. 

 

Thank you so much for yesterday so many people came up and said what a wonderful funeral. Humanist funeral are the way forward reflecting on that persons life … my mum would have loved it!

 

Thank you so much for today Kimberley. You did a fantastic job and gave my beautiful wife the perfect send off. I would recommend  you to anyone who needed a Humanist Celebrant. It’s been such an emotional day for me, but you have helped me so much !… Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

 

Thank you for your lovely service yesterday. Although it was a sad day,  the service at both locations will allow us to remember mam the way we wanted to.

 

Thank you so much for your Presentation. We and the family thought that it was just perfect. A number of people said to us afterwards , what an excellent job you had done and how appropriate and thoughtful, it was. We would highly recommend your services to anyone.

 

August 2024

 

Kimberly. I must take a moment to say thank you for making yesterday so special  EVERYONE has said how wonderful you were “a true story teller” and “you think she’d known L. for years” just a couple of the comments. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for making a very painful time into something to cherish and remember.

 

Thank you ever so much – you were amazing, a lot of people said too how lovely as a funeral can go. It changed a lot of people’s minds as having a lovely humanist. Thank you again for all the support you have given us as a family

 

Thank you for the wonderful rendition of our mum’s life today. There were many tears and even some laughs. Many people commented on the service and how it brought old memories back. Some said that it was the best funeral they have ever been to!!!! So anyway, thank you.

 

July 2024

 

Thank you so much for everything. Again, you have done a wonderful job writing and sharing the story of my dad and his life. I very much appreciate what you have done for both my mum and dad. 

 

Thank you thank you thank you for yesterday. You did such a brilliant job of representing Mums story and her spirit for everyone who was able to be there. You had such a warm comforting presence it took any anxiety away from me. Lots of people commented on what a great job you did. Thanks again for carrying me through it. 

 

 

June 2024

 

“We had the pleasure of Kimberley for our service to celebrate my dads life in June. Kimberley met us all to get an idea of how dad was and created a beautiful service. A lot of people commented on how good it was. Kimberley was fantastic in keeping us updated and provided us with her words before the service.

 

 

I wanted to extend my deepest gratitude for the beautiful service you conducted for my Mum. Your words and the way you captured her life were truly amazing. You managed to encapsulate her essence and the impact she had on all of us perfectly. It brought both comfort and solace to our family and friends during this difficult time. Thank you for your compassion, thoughtfulness, and the grace with which you led the service. It meant the world to us to have someone who truly understood and conveyed her spirit.

 

 

 It was a wonderful service and we can’t thank you enough for giving mum such a great send off. Please accept our sincerest and humblest thanks. You will always have our gratitude. Take care and best wishes.

 

 

Thank you for your outstanding performance as the Celebrant for Mum’s funeral yesterday. All the family were delighted with the occasion and felt it was a super send off for Mum. Many there said afterwards that it was the best humanist service they had attended. I agreed. I am clear that this was due to your careful and sympathetic preparation, both for yourself and in support of us, and to the exceptional quality of your delivery on the day. Your tone, style and engagement with all of us there yesterday made it feel a really special occasion.  Your tribute provided the perfect framework for me and my siblings and helped give everyone who was there a real feel for Mum’s long and varied life.  Thanks again for making a challenging day go as well as it could have done.

 

******** FIRST CLASS SERVICE **********

Kimberley kindly supported us through a difficult time after the death of a very cherished friend. Throughout this process Kimberley showed care, gentleness and compassion and this made such a difference at this very challenging time. The funeral was one of peace and calm, sharing beautiful memories and Kimberley gave all aspects of the service every care, thought and attention. Kimberley can be very much trusted to steer families throughout these life moments and her humility and grace added to what was a special, beautiful day. Thank you so much.

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May 2024 

 

“I just wanted to say a big thank you for speaking at my dad’s funeral everyone commented on how much they enjoyed “the service” And how different it was as they laughed an cried very much appreciated thank you very much”

 

“Thank you for your kind words and the copy. We’re both extremely grateful to you for your support and care over the past few weeks and especially for the beautiful service you crafted together and led yesterday”

 

“Thank you Kimberley from all of the family for what you had done for my mam’s funeral service. It was so beautifully put, and all the people who attended have told us that they truly enjoyed such a wonderful send-off, and that you came across as such a very remarkable person and well spoken on such a sad time for us all.  Thankyou! again so very much I appreciated all your hard work.”

 

“Thank you so much for yesterday Kimberley you made such a hard day a lot easier to deal with. My family also wanted to say thank you also. Such a lovely service and everything we wanted.” 

 

“Absolutely amazing lady who performed my dad’s service. Lots of laughter and reflection. Can’t recommend enough. Thank you”

 

“Kimberley, thank you again for your lovely service. You did us all proud. Everyone was very pleased with how things were conducted. On behalf of my whole family and all of Mums friends and relatives, thank you so much. “

 

“Thanks so much for forwarding  your presentation and another heartfelt thank you for conducting J’s funeral, it was as good as a funeral can be and although a sad day, I will always remember it with fondness, there were as many smiles, chuckles and laughter as tears and everyone who attended said that it was “J” take care and no doubt  we’ll catch up  again at another funeral!”

 

“Kimberley was so kind, compassionate and wonderful throughout the whole process of arranging the service for my aunt. She was incredibly thorough and interested to learn as much as she could about our loved one in order to make the service personal and perfect. Highly recommended. Thank you Kimberley”

 

“Thank you so much for the script and also for doing such a wonderful, sensitive job! Your kindness and compassion has been very much appreciated.”

 

“The day was perfect and you helped make it that way. If J was here, he would have loved his send off. Many many thanks for turning a very difficult time into a time of reflection with happiness, laughter and joy.”

 

“Thanks Kimberley. You helped make it a very special day. Excellent job.”

 

“Thank you, Kimberley. We’d like to say that we thought your reading was fantastic, you really captured the spirit of Uncle J, he would have loved the service. You made what could have been a difficult process for us very easy and that was very much appreciated, thank you again.”

 

 

April 2024 

 

“It was lovely thank you…x”

 

“It was beautiful and we can’t thank you enough”

 

“Thank you for the presentation script. Also, can I just thank you on behalf of the family for your delivery of today’s service and how personal and special it felt. It was very much appreciated.”

 

“Thank you for my mams service – was so so lovely. Everyone said how personal it was so thank you again for doing my mam proud”

 

“I just wanted to message and say thank you so much for today. Everyone commented on how lovely the service was and I can only thank you for presenting that the way you did. They all said it was him to a tee. Thank you” 

March 2024 

 

“I just want to thank you from myself and the rest of the family for a brilliant job yesterday.”

 

“Thank you for your time and support and we are all so thankful for how you represented my brother, J.”

 

 

February 2024 

“Thank you Kimberley. Everyone said what a lovely presentation you done and we had loads of comments off people that was there said how good you was. Thank you so much once again that job was meant for you.”

 

“Under such sad circumstances, Kimberly made the whole experience from start to finish so very genuine. She took her time and listened carefully to our story and then on the day delivered such a heart warming tale about our dad. So many people commented on how respectfully she spoke and how well she knew him. Some of our Christian family even questioned changing their own funerals arrangements and said how lovely it was for it being so personal. We are forever grateful to her for her professionalism and supportive guidance. Diolch.”

 

“Just perfect! My sister I were so worried about this day, but you made it a beautiful celebration of our father’s life. So many people commented on how moving and apt the ceromony was. Thank you so very much.”

 

 

January 2024 

 

“Kimberley came highly recommended, and within 5 minutes of meeting her, it was clear why. She connected with my family immediately, following a sudden parental loss. She helped us formulate a personal send-off for a beloved father, and made the difficult period a little more bearable. Her words, actions and presentational skills on the day – and in the days beforehand whilst preparing – made everything a little smoother. I can highly commend Kimberley – as a person you’ll like, as a professional who can help you, and as gentle helper as you navigate your journey. Thank you Kimberley. We loved you being part of our family for a short while.”

 

“Many thanks for your beautiful handling of today’s service. S and I both greatly appreciate your professionalism and personalisation in delivering today’s ceremony for B.  You did him and us proud, and delivered a beautiful eulogy wrapper. You have a lovely personality and approach – you connect and are professional – and we have benefited from your support. So, thank you. We send you our love and appreciation”

 

“I’d just like to thank you for the lovely celebration for R last Friday. We have had many compliments on the commemoration and how much of that was down to you.”

 

 

December 2023 

 

“Me and sisters can’t thank you enough. Everyone that we spoke to after her funeral said what a lovely service it was, many even saying that this type of service would be for them. Also can I say Thank-you for your email with the presentation script it really means a lot.” 

 

 

November 2023 

 

“We cannot put in to words how much your tribute to J. means to us. Everyone who we spoke to that attended the service have all said the same thing about how personal you made it. We would also like to thank you for the kindness you showed us during a very tough time.”

 

“You showed such sensitivity and balance that I feel the ceremony couldn’t have been better.  I thank you from the bottom of my heart and wish you every success in all you do in connection with people’s lives and loss.  It is a special skill for which you appear to be ideally suited. Sincere gratitude and appreciation”

 

“Thank you for the lovely service you gave. You set exactly the right tone and atmosphere – perfect for dad.”

 

“You are simply wonderful Kimberley. Thank you so much for everything. xxxx”

 

“We wanted to send our thanks and appreciation for the very professional, compassionate and empathetic way in which you conducted both the preparations for, and R’s actual funeral.  We really appreciated the time you gave to us and to get to know R, which meant that the service was very fitting for her. So many people told us how beautiful and meaningful the service was and we feel that no other celebrant could have done it better! Everyone that played a part in the service appreciated you being in contact with them in advance and every one of them said how kind you were to them. We would have absolutely no hesitation in recommending you and would be very happy to provide a testimonial for you, if you would like us to.”

 

 

October 2023

 

“Kimberly was excellent, very kind and patient. And almost everyone at my dads funeral remarked about her lovely service and how compassionate she was and I send her my family’s sincere thanks”

 

“We can’t thank Kimberley enough for the service she put on for my Dad’s funeral. It really did go above any expectations we had and absolutely did justice to the man he was. She made things so much easier during a very hard time. Thank you Kimberley.”

 

“On behalf of all the family I would like to say a sincere thank you for the beautiful and touching service you gave at our Fathers funeral. Our family and friends all commented what a wonderful service it was celebrating our Dads life. You thought, comfort and calmness throughout lead us through this difficult time.”

 

“I was delighted with everything that happened on the day.  The words, the music, the pictures all came together beautifully.  Both on the day and since,  I have received many lovely comments on how fitting the ceremony was for the S. they knew and loved.  One friend said in an email today that she had never attended a ceremony quite like it and thought it was delightful. Thank you so much for helping assemble the ceremony and of course for delivering the same on the day.  I loved your suggestion for Act 1, Act 2 etc. and also your offer to show the children the chapel before hand.  You were so kind in all your dealings with me and with H. & K.  Your calm presence lifted the day. Now, after the event, thank you for your transcript which I was not expecting.  I can share this with people who were unable to attend.”

 

Thank you [for the Presentation Copy of the ceremony] .. and thank you for yesterday. My mum said that it was very respectful. You were brilliant and I’m glad we had you to perform the service. It was a small service and I was hoping for a better turn out… but you made it for us”

September 2023 

“Thank you, Kimberley, the service was amazing. It really did show how B. was as a person… You did a fantastic job, Kimberley, thank you so much.”

“Just wanted to say a massive thank you from myself and the family. The service was absolutely fantastic and everyone said how amazing you were, like you were talking about a friend. Thank you so much for your time and getting to know J., really meant a lot to me.”

August 2023

“The service was so beautiful, just what mum would have wanted I think. Many commented that it was lovely how the story line and the memories made everyone there feel included. Although it was a sad day, it was hard not to smile too. Thank you for putting together such a lovely service.”

“Thank you very much for sending this over [Presentation Copy of the ceremony] and the beautiful service yesterday. It was perfect and everybody who attended mentioned how personal it felt to mum. Thank you.”

July 2023

“We can’t thank you enough for yesterday. Not only did you pay attention to the details of my brother’s life – you delivered it with compassion and humour. You worked so hard and truly celebrated my brother. You were professional and approachable and updated us regularly. I appreciate that this is your job but you have exceeded the family’s expectation. We are privileged that you are the person who delivered our service.”

“Thank you so much for the kind service and empathetic manner in which you conducted my Dad’s service today. The compassion shone through. Many people said how beautifully you delivered a fitting service. I was so proud and grateful for the way you made me and my family feel at ease during what was an emotional time for us. I have had numerous compliments today about how beautiful and meaningful the service was and how you captured the memory of my Dad in tone, empathy and genuine spirit. Thank you so much for being so supportive throughout.” 

June 2023

“Kimberley was the officiating humanist at my mum’s funeral on the 28/6/23. Thanks to Kimberley’s wonderful way with words we were able to send the our mum off in the most fitting way and lots of stories throughout my mum’s life. The service Kimberley really helped to sum my mum up – humour, love, and acknowledgement of the hardships my mum faced. Thank you Kimberley for providing that comfort at such a hard time.”

 

“Thankyou so much for the amazing and moving tribute, it was such a fitting memorial of a beautiful man I was proud to call my Dad. Your delivery was perfect, with such a of mix of humour, compassion and empathy. Everyone who attended loved the service and identified things about J. Many said they had never been to a humanist service before but found it very person centred and less formal. Thankyou again your input was invaluable.”

 

“Dear Kimberley, thank you so much for everything on Friday. You were perfect. x

 

“Thank you, Kimberley. I think I speak on behalf of all the family you spoke so lovely and really got the real sense of who M. was”

 

“Sincere thanks for leading such a beautiful service to remember and celebrate the life of my lovely friend.”

 

“Thank you so much for representing our family in such an eloquent way, the praise you received afterwards was incredible, most said it had changed their thinking and it is the kind of service they will now choose. T. would have been truly proud of the service he had, it was perfect. It was a pleasure to meet you, as you say in very sad circumstances, I speak for us all, thank you Kimberley.”

 

May 2023

“Thank you, it was a beautiful service, everyone said that they had not ever attended one that was so light. So we achieved what we had set out to do, thanks”

 

Thank you for giving D. a great send off

 

“We want to extend our thanks to you for such a wonderful service.  It was perfect”

 

“Thank you for such a lovely service yesterday. We all really appreciate it! You presented D, really well and I couldn’t thank you enough!”

 

“I would like to thank you so much for the wonderful words that you beautifully delivered on Thursday. Every one l spoke to thought it was perfect. I will definitely be keeping the presentation script – L. will stay in my heart forever. Many thanks once again”

 

April 2023

“We’ve had so many compliments on dad’s service today. Many have taken time to compliment you on the highest level. I’m so glad we chose you to lead dads service. Lots of love & thanks.” 

 

“Thank you so much for delivering the service in the way you did …. You spoke beautifully and with a warmth and humour relating to B at just the right pitch. Everyone commented how lovely the service was…It was lovely meeting you and I will certainly recommend you others. Hopefully not for a long time!”

 

“I just wanted to say thank you for the wonderful service and for your support as I choked up at the end of the poem I had dedicated to him. Myself, my sister, our friends and family as well as the police community thought you did a great job. Good luck for the future and I will definitely recommend you to others should they be looking at a humanist service.”

March 2023

“I want to thank you for the lovely service that you give dad, when I say service it felt more like a lovely conversation about him. It was what he wanted short and not drawn out, perfect.” – March 2023

“It was lovely to finally meet you and thank you for capturing him so perfectly! He definitely was an older one with young outlook, we all felt the service portrayed him so well. Yes, a sad day but also a celebration for a man that saw so much and lived life his way.” – March 2023

 

February 2023 

“Kimberley – thank you from myself and my family. Mam would have been really proud of the service she had today. It was my mother to a tee. Thank you again” – February 2023

 

Hi Kimberley. I just wanted to say, myself and my parents were at ** funeral last Tuesday and thought you did a fantastic job. My mother came outside and said I’d like her to do mine! So I’d like to ask you if I could put your name on our funeral plans for them to contact you at the time. Hopefully a long way off but I’d rather do it now while I think of it.” – February 2023

 

“Thank you, Kimberley. The service was really lovely, made special by you. J really appreciated what you did and the way you did it. Hopefully we won’t need your services again for a while!” – February 2023

 

January 2023 

“From all my family we would  like to say a huge thank you for a wonderful service. It made mums funeral feel special and a celebration of her.” – January 2023
“I just wanted to say thank you for everything, I have had so many messages on how lovely the service was” – January 2023

 

“I just wanted to thank you for your help throughout the process of arranging Grampy’s funeral. I want to thank you for putting together a lovely ceremony for gramps at a time when our information was probably all over the place in its delivery. We really appreciated the check in on the morning and the reassuring nods throughout to see we were ok. At a difficult time, the process has been made far easier with the support of yourself and Andy (Funeral Director)”  – January 2023

I just wanted to thank you for help, patience and kindness throughout this difficult time. We had so many lovely comments about how lovely the service was and that meant such a lot to us. Your guidance and help enabled us to give Dad the service he deserved so once again thank you.” – January 2023

2022

“I was, as always, impressed with the way that you speak to the family, the way that you engage with the individual as you are speaking to them, and the pleasant way that you come across. Upon arriving at the venue following the service, I must have been asked by dozens of people as to who you were and how much they all thought you were first class. They all said how you made it so personal and felt it was just as **** would have wanted.” – Funeral Director, July, 2022

 

“Simply fantastic. We are still very fragile at present but again your input has helped us so much to get our head around things.” – July, 2022

“I’m so sorry I didn’t get chance to thank you after the service, it was exactly what we hoped it would be, Dad would have loved it. So many friends and family said how lovely you were and that you captured the moment and Dad perfectly. Thank you so much for playing such an important part of this really significant day for us all” – June, 2022

 

2021

I would also like to thank you for all that you did for us on the day and for the work you put in to ensure my dad was remembered and celebrated in such a dignified and thoughtful way” – December, 2021

 

Everyone has got back to me saying what a beautiful service it was – a lot of that was thanks to your help and kindness.  All our family said how perfect you were for mum’s funeral. I think we all did her proud.” – October, 2021

 

I also want to thank you for doing a fantastic job yesterday. The lovely way you had woven together all of the information we gave you, the pacing of the ceremony, the volume of your voice, everything was perfect! The feedback later from the family and friends at the wake was that it was one of the most moving funerals they had ever attended and that it truly recognized and celebrated their life. You were a big part of creating this wonderful impression in people.” – October, 2021

 

 

Thank you so much for the way you presented the service…everyone who was there said it was a beautiful service.” – September, 2021