My role as a funeral celebrant is to visit a family at their time of loss and to help them to find the story they want to remember their loved one by. This is achieved by sensitive listening to the stories you have about them: what was this person like? How would you define their character and characteristics? What made them laugh and cry? How did they live, love and work?
Developing the ceremony is a collaborative process where I take the responsibility for crafting the ceremony but where your thoughts, your memories, your words are drawn together. Your choice of music, poetry and readings is also important and it is my role to reassure you that whatever you want the ceremony to be like, we can work towards making that happen.
I just wanted to say a BIG thank you to you both for all your help in giving our dad a fantastic send off yesterday. He would have loved it and called it “absolutely brilliant” (a phase he often used!). Thank you for your professionalism, your sympathetic manner to the way he was as a person and for making Beka and I feel like we were in good hands. Thank you Kate for your fantastic presentation to the congregation. I had several comments from people afterwards who commented “it was the best funeral I have ever been to!” and “you got John down to a ‘T’ “. Several said that they wanted a humanist funeral too for when their time comes, because the day was so much more about the person and felt really personal. So, thanks again (June 2018)
” I want to thank you for a really lovely celebration of Linda’s life on Friday. You were wonderfully calm throughout and showed great sensitivity and perception. There was a gentleness in your delivery which was very comforting and dignified.” (September 2017)
“Thank you so much for conducting such a beautiful service yesterday. It was a wonderful celebration of Chris’ life and such a fitting way for all of our family and friends to say farewell to him. The Natural Burial Ground at the Sustainability Centre is a very special, tranquil and beautiful place and you made the whole service and the committal dignified yet extremely touching. Heartfelt thanks from us all” G, P, P, T and C. (September, 2016)