Starting Off on the Right Foot

“Congratulations!

Today is your day.

You’re off to Great Places!

You’re off and away!”

― Dr. Seuss, Oh, the Places You’ll Go!

 

 

Why a humanist naming ceremony might be the right choice for your family

 

A Warm Welcome

A new child coming into the world reminds us all of the renewing power of nature. That new life brings with it hope and a huge outpouring of love. A humanist ceremony puts celebration right at its heart: we can laugh, sing, raise a glass as we welcome the newest member of a family into the world.

More Meaningful
For parents whose beliefs are more ethical than religious, a humanist ceremony offers an opportunity for them to choose language which more accurately reflects the values they wish to pass on their child. They may also find that any non-religious guide parents might find uniquely worded personal promises more relevant (and easier to keep in the future) than a more vague requirement, for example, to “reject the devil” in a church ceremony. That said, as humanist ceremonies are above all inclusive ceremonies, there can be opportunities to acknowledge respect for those present who do hold strong religious beliefs.

A Family Affair
Inclusivity also points to involving as many members of the family as possible in the ceremony. As well as contributions from grandparents and other older relatives, it’s great to consider involving siblings. After all, wonderful though it may be, the arrival of a new member of the family means a seismic shift for everyone and it’s great to mark this too, perhaps with a symbolic action such as a sand-blending, a candle lighting or a tree planting.

More Memorable
A hallmark of all humanist ceremonies is being able to shape the content of the ceremony to ensure that it reflects not only the wishes of the parents but also will be enjoyable and significant for every person present. There are so many wonderful stories to share when a new arrival becomes part of the family and I relish telling them. Also, there are no restrictions for where we can hold your ceremony: in your back garden, upstairs room of a pub, a beautiful hilltop…all are possible!

Not Just New Babies!
There are lots of reasons why a family might wait until a child is older to celebrate their naming day and there are no age limits for a humanist ceremony. In addition, some parents might wish to hold a naming for more than one of their children on the same occasion- not a problem!

Post-Adoption Naming Ceremonies
As an adoptive parent myself, I have a particular interest in this type of naming ceremony which can require a slightly different approach in some circumstances.

Get in Touch!

If this sounds like the kind of naming ceremony you envisage, please get in touch. Please note that fees typically range between £200-£300 to include a two-three hour planning meeting, an original script and delivery of the ceremony.